How to Use a Sex Machine: A Complete Beginner's Guide

May 14, 2026

Just received your sex machine and not sure where to start? This guide walks you through everything — setup, safety, positions, and how to get the most out of every session.

Before You Begin: Safety First

Sex machines are powerful. Before your first use, take a few minutes to:

Read the instruction leaflet included with your machine
Ensure the attachment is firmly secured to the drive shaft
Place the machine on a stable, flat surface — rubber suction feet grip hard floors and firm surfaces well
Keep the speed controller within easy reach so you can adjust or stop at any time

Step 1: Attach the Dildo

All our machines use the standard vac-u-lock connector. To attach:

Align the suction cup of the dildo with the rounded end of the drive shaft
Push firmly until it clicks or seats securely
Give it a gentle tug to confirm it's locked in place before use

Always check the attachment is secure before turning the machine on.

Step 2: Position the Machine

Placement is everything. Common positions include:

On the bed: Place on a firm mattress or at the edge of the bed. Works well for missionary-style positioning.
On the floor: Great for doggy-style or kneeling positions. The suction feet grip carpet and hard floors.
On a chair or ottoman: Useful for seated positions and easy angle adjustment.

Adjust the thrust angle using the machine's tilt mechanism until it lines up naturally with your body. You shouldn't have to strain or contort to meet the motion — let the machine come to you.

Step 3: Use Plenty of Lubricant

This is non-negotiable. Use a generous amount of water-based lubricant on the attachment before use, and reapply as needed. This improves comfort significantly and protects the attachment.

Avoid silicone-based lubes with silicone attachments — they can degrade the material over time.

Step 4: Start Slow

Turn the speed to its lowest setting and gradually increase. Even if you're experienced, starting slow lets your body warm up and helps you find the right angle. It also means you can discover what feels best without being overwhelmed.

Most users find a medium speed to be the sweet spot for sustained pleasure, with higher speeds used to finish.

Tips for Getting the Most Out of Your Machine

Experiment with angles: Small angle adjustments make a huge difference. G-spot stimulation is usually achieved with a slight upward tilt.
Try different attachments: The ribbed or curved attachments in the bundle kit feel very different from the classic realistic dildo. Each delivers a distinct sensation.
Use with a vibrator: Combine the machine with external stimulation for an intense combined experience.
Take breaks: Unlike a human partner, your machine never gets tired — but you might. It's fine to pause, readjust, and continue.