Sex machines have a reputation as a solo toy — but couples are increasingly using them together, and for good reason. Hands-free, consistent, infinitely adjustable: a machine can do things that are physically impossible to sustain manually, freeing both partners to focus on each other rather than the mechanics.
Why Couples Use Sex Machines
The appeal comes down to a few key things:
- No fatigue — the machine never gets tired, never loses rhythm, never needs a break. That consistency is difficult to replicate manually.
- Hands-free for both — when the machine handles penetration, both partners have their hands free for everything else.
- Removes performance pressure — particularly useful for couples where one partner finds sustained manual stimulation physically taxing.
- Adds variety — different speeds, angles and attachments create a completely different dynamic to regular partnered sex.
Best Positions for Couples Using a Sex Machine
Doggy-Style / Behind
One of the most popular setups. Place the machine on the floor or a low surface behind the receiving partner. The giver positions themselves in front for oral or other contact. The angle dial on the machine lets you target exactly the right spot.
Face-to-Face
The receiving partner lies on their back, legs toward the machine, positioned at the end of the bed. The giving partner kneels beside or over them for kissing, touching and eye contact while the machine does the work below. Deeply intimate and surprisingly natural-feeling.
Seated / Chair Position
Machine placed on the floor in front of a chair or ottoman. One partner sits on the edge while the other faces them. Works particularly well with the G-spot curved attachment.
Partner-Controlled Speed
The speed dial can be controlled by either partner — the giver can adjust pace in real time, making it a genuinely interactive experience rather than just a machine running on autopilot.
Tips for Using a Machine Together
- Set it up together — positioning and angle adjustment works best as a team effort before you start.
- Establish a signal — agree a word or gesture to slow down or stop. The machine won't pick up on body language the way a partner would.
- Start slower than you think — machines are more powerful than most manual stimulation. Starting at low speed lets both partners ease in together.
- Use lube generously — more than you think you need. Water-based lube on the attachment before use and topped up as needed.
- Try the G-spot attachment — the curved attachment in the 5-dildo bundle is particularly effective for couples targeting internal pleasure while the giver focuses on external stimulation.
Which Machine Is Best for Couples?
For couples, we recommend the 5 Dildo Bundle for the simple reason that having five different attachments means more room to experiment together. The curved G-spot attachment in particular is a favourite for partnered use.
The adjustable angle, rubber suction feet (for stability), and wide speed range make it easy to set up in any position and focus on each other rather than managing the machine.
Privacy and Discretion
All Love Machines orders ship in plain, unmarked packaging — no indication of contents on the outside. Same-day dispatch on orders before 3pm, tracked delivery across the UK.